December 15, 2011

Three Weeks

It's hard to believe my little girl has been in my life for three weeks. She continues to amaze me every single day. I have been unbelievably blessed. Crosbi is such a happy baby. At her last doctor's appointment, her doctor said to me, "What a relaxed baby!" I told my dad this and he said she obviously doesn't get that from me. It's true. She's just like her daddy in the best ways.

She's sleeping great too. Last night she slept for six hours, ate and fell asleep for another two and a half hours. How did we get so lucky? Even if she were waking up more frequently during the night, I couldn't complain. She never cries, just squeaks a bit until I make my way to her. The expression on her face when she first wakes up is my absolute favorite. I may be half asleep, but when I look at her I immediately perk up, kiss her sweet face and thank God for the incredible gift He has given me. One thing about late night feedings, it allows lots of good prayer time, and for that I'm thankful. Speaking of prayers, Allison gave me the best book: Prayers for New Mothers. I cry every time I read it, but it's so spot on for where I am right now. I can't recommend it enough.

As amazing as Crosbi is, there are a few things that I'm still trying to get used to. I wish I would have known how difficult nursing would be. Labor was a breeze compared to breastfeeding! I'm determined not to give up. We will get it figured out. I love being needed so much by my sweet girl and I know how good it is for her. Sooner or later we'll get it together.

Leaving the house is tough too. Todd and I attempted to get some Christmas shopping done last night. We made it to one store before I called it quits. I was exhausted, Crosbi was hungry. It was a bit crazy. I'll be so glad when she's on a better schedule so that I can leave the house more often. I'm feeling a bit trapped in the four walls of our home, but I know this will pass and I don't want to wish away this time with my girl.

Next week we head to Missouri for Christmas. Prayers are definitely appreciated! We need to survive a 14-16 round trip car ride and our efforts to give the grandparents equal time with Crosbi could get ugly. I've never been this nervous about a trip. A drama free Christmas is all I'm asking for this year.

I'll be back with C's one month update, and as we get into a better routine, I'll try to not make this blog "mommy central." Right now being mommy is a 24-hour job, but I don't want to lose the old me. We'll get it sorted out eventually!


  1. You have a great perspective that it'll all get sorted out! The first few months are a huge adjustment but it'll even out and you'll start to feel more like yourself again :) Crosbi IS sleeping really good, that's awesome! She is SUCH a doll.

  2. I kinda like that your blog is "mommy central" as you call it. I think your blog should change and grow as you change and grow and I think you're doing a great job!!!

  3. she's so beautiful!!
    i have a four month old little boy and i say the same thing all the time, "giving birth was WAY easier than breastfeeding!" but guess what? that hard part doesn't last long, we're doing so well nursing now. just don't give up, it gets better!!
    oh, and i just ordered that book on amazon! thanks!

  4. I would have to agree... nursing is very challenging. You have the determination to get through it though... the hard part is almost over! I always tell people to give it 3 weeks.
    As far as the Christmas Drama.... you, Crosbi and Todd are a family now. You have to take care of your needs despite what Grandmas say. I know... easier said than done, but that is the ONLY way to avoid drama. Be up front from the git go!! Love to you Mama! You are doing so great with Crosbi!